Finding that guy who seems complementary in all areas is very difficult. That is why when you find it is as if your whole life pass before your eyes and you knew that everything that lived here was just to get to know this person and stay at his side. Everything seems incredible, not necessarily perfect because perfection is not what you want, but good enough and very similar to what you’ve always imagined .
The weeks and comes the time to approach a little more, live more intimate spaces for the first time .You are excited, the truth is you can not wait any longer and are sure to be a memorable encounter … except that it is not. It is nothing of what you expect, it not makes you feel anything in particular and when everything just do not know whether to thank because torture did not last long or berating yourself because maybe you pressed a lot. Perhaps it is something that does not happen always? Was he maybe just nervous?
What to do at this time when you discover that are not supported in this important area of future relationship? It’s amazing, is gentle, he is kind, never ignore your feelings and yet is unable to satisfy when it comes to privacy . clearly not want to give by defeated , after all, no sense that this incredible, sexy and cool boy can not be combatible you in these other aspects .
The problem is that for more than you expect no rate. Things remain the same and is not that he does not try, because it does, too , but there comes a point where you feel you no longer want to keep going. It just can not stand to see how each encounter ends increasingly with confidence and if we are honest, your frustration is beginning to be a problem.
Sometimes the chemistry and biology have a role almost as important as love . Not saying it’s impossible to be with someone and not have intimate relationships, however, if the physical is important to feel connected to your partner , then you have to find another way or just leave them. It is true that you can give them time and see how the relationship evolves, but if you do not feel satisfied now, believe me you will not feel satisfied in another year. It is the harsh reality, and as I mentioned, is almost a modern Greek tragedy, but it is life and in life we get to choose .