Many people blindly believe that you can maintain a healthy relationship of friendship with former boyfriends, but not so many factors that at some point affect your new life and anyway that relationship will end forever. So, why prolong things?
Today we give you 10 reasons to not be friends with your ex.
1. At some point you think that there is another chance.
There will come a point where you or your ex think that there are chances to resume the relationship. If they try, they inevitably fail, and if one does not agree, things will get tense and uncomfortable. You not need any more drama.
2. Jealousy will descend.
As they are now friends, both have the right to date other people. When he tell you things (or you to him) from their current partners, it can become painful. Why do you want to live it?
3. slow down your duel.
When a relationship ends, a duel begins. You must overcome to continue with yours. When you become friends with your ex, you delay the inevitable and lengthen without pain. If you say goodbye, it is forever, do not put an unnecessary pause your way.
4. Do not know what to do with your new relationship.
You will not know whether to tell or not you already have someone else, and I wonder: Why you should consider it? Although you should not give explanations, to be her friend you will feel the need to do so.
5.’ll hurt the feelings of your new partner.
Maybe your new partner does not agree with that to be friends of the former, perhaps not at first tell you anything, but believe me, feel that you do not give place and will strike their feelings.
6. You will cause problems.
Sooner or later you will get a new partner here and you will decide. But why get to this point? Best place to give every person in your life.
7. You will have 2 life.
They are exes, too are known, come running to tell you things about your work, school, family, etc. You will also be starting a new story with your new partner, why mix the two?
8. Do not know how to get back to end that relationship.
I swear that at some point this relationship of “friendship” with your ex will have an end, and now you have to finish with him or her again. Once is enough, do not you think?
9. You will gather the former.
The world is very small and if you have friends in common. You do not want meetings are made intense and uncomfortable, do you?
10. will be leaving open cycles.
Leave open cycles in life you will tows emotional burdens of life. Close them you will advance and be happier. Do not complicate things more!